Friends....hmmm...first thing that comes to mind is that they're the people you turn to in times of happiness, struggle, terror, curiousity and the list goes on and on!! There are many types of friends. Those include best friends, normal friends, friends by association and those you consider your friends just because they tell you hi and bye everyday just to be nice!
They are the ones you can depend on and the ones who you turn when you need advice and comfort!...
Personally, I have numerous friends but only a couple VERY close ones. Those are the ones i hang out with on a daily basis! They listen to me and i listen to them also. They are the ones who have to put up with my crazy notions and antics and just about evrything weird about myself!!! Am glad to be able to have had them as friends especially those who have been my friends since both elementary school and high school!!
Furthermore the best memories one can have is the ones that occur around friends! They are the ones you hang out with most of the time on a daily basis and the ones you tell EVERYTHING to!
Of course not all friendships last, but there is nothing one can do to prevent that! I have come to the realization that some friends are meant to just be in your life for a brief period of time probably to show you something about life or to let you create new experiences. Not all are meant to be your best friends forever. People change over time, and conflicts occur and well gradually some friendships just fall apart. Sometimes it is what it is and you just have to deal with it. Even though you may lose a couple friends in life, you will still have the memory of them some bittersweet of course but things happen for a reason and perhaps in some crazy way their friendship was supposed to be short lived to probably spare you from things to come.
We don't know why things happen the way they do but yeah we just gotta deal with it! Anyways just be honest and just perceptive when you do try to make friends.
Try to be open and nice to all the new people you encounter in life and you never know where you might meet your next good friend. Also be good to the ones you do have now because they are the ones who keep us together when we fall apart, the ones who rejoice with us when we get a boyfriend/ girlfriend, the one who keeps our butt in line when we clearly can't, and the one who believes in us when we don't believe in ourselves!
Here are some websites where you can connect with your friends everyday or even meet new ones! :
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